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Another Resurrection

4/15/2017

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I trust in nature for the stable laws of beauty and utility.
​Spring shall plant and autumn garner to the end of time.
~Robert Browning

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As I child I LOVED Easter. It meant new hats and dresses (some times worn under winter coats—even in the D.C. area). It meant the Easter Egg Roll at the White House with friends and family. It meant flowers and spring air—which has its own essence and aroma. It meant CANDY!!! And yes, being a minister’s daughter, it meant attending church and seeing all the familiar faces there. It was a time for celebration. That feeling has continued throughout the years. There is continuity even if I was in a new or different home for the holiday (my parents shared custody of me until I was eighteen and my mom moved around a bit during my “tween” years).

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As ordained clergy, I view the holiday in a whole new light. I am tuned in during Holy Week in new and amazing ways. I was Pastor for a small congregation for several years and looked to make liturgy come to life. I was excited at all the potential ways to tell an ancient story and hope it came to life for folks*. And now, as a campus minister, Holy Week looks different since I meet with students on a weekly (not Sunday) basis. We don’t have daily meetings during Holy Week as schedules are filled with papers, projects, exams, work, and self care. It's up to each of us to dig in and find meaning.
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Greek (Greek: λειτουργία), leitourgia, which literally means "work of the people" is a literal translation of the two words "litos ergos" or "public service".

The symbolic language of the crucifixion is the death of the old paradigm; resurrection is a leap into a whole new way of thinking.
~Deepak Chopra

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This year I notice the fluctuation between my personal spiritual growth and serving the community in deep and profound ways. I continue to do my personal growth work and have made some significant discoveries in the past few weeks. And at the same time, I continue to be called into service of and for the community in which I live. There are deep and impactful ways the communities of the Greater Lansing area need us to show up and speak out.

Lent was “easier” to enter as I am connected to the resounding darkness that has swept the nation since the election and more specifically Inauguration Day. It’s the resurrection that feels difficult. I don’t know how my colleagues who serve in parishes are doing it. And yet, the liturgical calendar will still proceed whether we are personally ready for it or not. To be honest, I feel guilty for celebrating the holiday when so many folks are pressed harder and farther to the margins this year. I continue to ask myself, "Where is the resurrection for folks who are struggling?" Perhaps that question will continue to be with me until I take my last breath.

Men are beginning to realize that they are not individuals but persons in society, that man alone is weak and adrift, that he must seek strength in common action.
~Dorothy Day

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And then I’m reminded of a sermon from I heard recently. It isn’t up to us for us to ask, “What would Jesus Do?” After all, we aren’t the Messiah and we probably already know the answer to asking how Jesus will respond to certain situations. But rather, it’s up to us to ask instead, “How am I Transformed by Christ?” It’s in this transformation on personal and communal levels where the resurrection continues to takes place. It is where we see those pressed on the margins and seek active steps in removing the barriers in place for these folks. It is those areas within each of us that are "dead" and no longer serving which need to be shed and resolved. Christ is not among the dead but among the living. What is it within us (that is healthy) that is alive--that is where Christ is. That is what is to be celebrated.

​What can we gain by sailing to the moon if we are not able to cross the abyss that separates us from ourselves? This is the most important of all voyages of discovery, and without it, all the rest are not only useless, but disastrous.
~Thomas Merton

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So yes, another resurrection is occurring. Are we ready for it? How will it inspire us this year when so many folks need the good news. What are you looking to transform? How can I be of assistance?

But with Christ, we have access in a one-to-one relationship, for, as in the Old Testament, it was more one of worship and awe, a vertical relationship.
​The New Testament, on the other hand, we look across at a Jesus who looks familiar, horizontal. The combination is what makes the Cross.

~Bono

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Come Out

4/5/2017

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You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.'
~Eleanor Roosevelt

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I’m still that scared little girl. The one who hid behind her mom’s legs. The one who had one best friend in Kindergarten. The one who made sure her closet door was closed each night and that my limbs didn’t fall over the edge of the bed. That one. The one who feared the future and just wanted to play with her stuffed animals (I had names for every one of them). 

That little girl trips me up. I wish I could go back in time and tell her that it really was going to be okay. I wish I could tell her that she would gain the strength to fight her monsters—and win.

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.
~Mark Twain

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What is it this time? How is she showing up? Today it’s having the courage to burn down closet doors that keep me from being 100% honest with all the people I encounter. If my “spiritual closet” opens and closes once again I really will need a revolving door on it. So I want to burn it down. I don’t want to hide any longer. But that little girl—she’s peeking out from behind the door and telling me to come back inside where it’s safe. But it isn’t safe. I’m losing energy hiding.

People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.
~Thich Nhat Hanh

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What do I have to lose? Everything!! At least that’s the risk assessment going on in my mind. Professional relationships that are genuine are not that easy to come by; and I don’t want to lose what has taken precious time and energy to build. However, I’m still losing out. I’m not able to be authentic in all my relationships and so I’m still hiding in that closet or under the bed wishing people would lighten up. Though I haven’t heard an unkind word yet—but my mind—it stores up all of the what ifs and what could bes. 

We're taught to be ashamed of confusion, anger, fear and sadness, and to me they're of equal value to happiness, excitement and inspiration.
~Alanis Morissette

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The truth is that I’m never going to be “Christian enough” for some people once they find out I’m a minister. Being Christian in the metaphysical world is too religious and not spiritual enough. I’m never going to be scholarly enough for some colleagues—I’m a feeler and a healer and that’s who I am. And I identify as queer—so that’s fine for some and not for others. And what about my abilities to see and perceive what is beyond this physical realm?!—well that’s just weird for everyone so I should just stay quiet about that. But I can’t. But that little girl inside is begging me to be quiet. 

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.
~Marie Curie

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I just am. I’m healing. I’m working on emptying my baggage on a regular basis. I’m lighter than I used to be. My calling is to encourage others to do the same. That is what it’s like on the other side of the closet—it’s lighter. I’m telling that little girl at the same time I’m telling you—it’s okay out here. Come out.

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Throw Open the Door

1/1/2017

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The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.
~Confucius

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“Throw open the door.” When you say these words to me, I cringe (almost retching). I’m an introvert—something new I’ve learned about myself in the past five years or so. I had always thought of myself as an extrovert—I thought I was because I like conversations, being humorous, going out with friends, and gaining laughs, (some) public speaking, and crowd watching (to name a few of my extroverted behaviors). And then I realized that I NEED a quiet space for recharging. I don’t like people just showing up unannounced (Although I would never turn people away). I don’t like talking on the phone to strangers. I prefer solitude—like, a lot of it. I thrive on quiet time like it’s a meal unto itself.

You can either be a host to God, or a hostage to your ego. It's your call.
~Wayne Dyer

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“Throw open the door.” is a phrase that has been coming to mind during this holiday season when I’ve been thinking about my next blog post (sorry for the gaps). It’s something I’ve considered when thinking about my religious tradition (Swedenborgian-Christianity) and what my mantra for 2017 will be. Radical hospitality is something I learned about while in theological school. It’s not something that comes naturally for Swedenborgians; and because few people have heard about Emanuel Swedenborg and his theological writings, we are suspect. “How did you hear about us?” “Were you born into the tradition?” “We aren’t really on the map—how did you find us?” Maybe it’s just be me, but I don’t think these questions are exactly what new people would find “welcoming”—let alone hospitable.  If we are going to thrive in any way it will be adapting and changing—something that isn’t in everyone’s repertoire. ​ 

Planning a dinner party in a way that you're actually capable of getting it done without panicking is important.
​It's bad hospitality for the host to be freaked out.

~Ted Allen

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“Come on in and make yourself comfortable.” Learning to play host is something I learned from my mom (though she was an active feminist in the 70s/80s). My mom knew how to host a party even if the women around us in the 70s were fighting that role. There was a push/pull happening. Up to this point, women were keepers of the house and expected to play hostess. While my mom learned this skill set, she was also working full time which was something new. I watched, observed, and took notes. I can set a table and create a great spread—but the push/pull I grew up with is playing out in my adulthood. I haven’t had a space for great spread since I’ve lived in Michigan (eleven years). I have moved into a space where I can host gatherings and am excited for this potential. 2017 is a year for opportunities and new beginnings. 

Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates
​walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.

~Maya Angelou

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​“Come on in and make yourself comfortable.” Inviting people in goes against everything I know internally. I’m socially awkward and know that my foot will go in my mouth more than hors d'oeuvres. This is a barrier for me to remove. I think of the people who work on making buildings, homes, businesses, etc. accessible—in other words, “barrier free.” What does it take for us to be accessible? Who can we lean upon to make it so that people can access who we are and what we have to offer? Perhaps we don’t think we are inaccessible. Perhaps that is the first step: self-awareness.

We welcome the scrutiny of the world - because what you see in America
is a country that has steadily worked to address our problems
​and make our union more perfect.

~Barack Obama

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“You are welcome here.” This is a phrase I've reflected upon regarding our nation and the administration that will take over in twenty short days. I will continue to speak these words, put it into tangible actions, and repeat. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t scared for what is to come during the next President’s administration and it’s fear I haven’t felt during any other election cycle. However, I will continue to speak these words, “You are welcome here.” as a spiritual practice and as a member of my community. Learn more here.

My friend posted this poem on social media and is fitting to include in this blog post.
Thank you, Anna. 
The Year as a House: A Blessing

Think of the year
as a house:
door flung wide
in welcome,
threshold swept
and waiting,
a graced spaciousness
opening and offering itself
to you.
Let it be blessed
in every room.
Let it be hallowed
in every corner.
Let every nook
be a refuge
and every object
set to holy use.
Let it be here
that safety will rest.
Let it be here
that health will make its home.
Let it be here
that peace will show its face.
Let it be here
that love will find its way.
Here
let the weary come
let the aching come
let the lost come
let the sorrowing come.
Here
let them find their rest
and let them find their soothing
and let them find their place
and let them find their delight.
And may it be
in this house of a year
that the seasons will spin in beauty,
and may it be
in these turning days
that time will spiral with joy.
And may it be
that its rooms will fill
with ordinary grace
and light spill from every window
to welcome the stranger home.

by Jan Richardson

How do you react to the words, “Throw open the door.” ??

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I'm Waiting...

12/4/2016

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*It's been a month since I've blogged. I've had about a dozen starts but nothing coming to fruition. It's not like I don't have anything to say. I have plenty to say, but I just couldn't quite land anywhere. It's been a rollercoaster of a ride: emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Lots has changed in my world and much more for those for those in minority groups who don't have the privilege of hiding behind skin color, perceived religion, or a whole host of other reasons. 

This blog comes from a message I shared in my campus ministry last week.
It is based on these readings:
Genesis 1:1-2:4
Matthew 28:16-20
My preference is this translation, but the links above will suffice
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Childbirth is more admirable than conquest, more amazing
than self-defense, and as courageous as either one.

~Gloria Steinem

There’s no doubt we are in an odd time. Not only are we dealing with the aftermath of one of the most contentious election cycles in modern times, but as Christians we are entering into the liturgical season of Advent (which began on Sunday). No doubt one of the oddest pairings I’ve reflected about since my ordination over nine years ago. It’s weird and I don’t know what to make of it. It’s enough that we are still looking for answers as to what our future will hold—and specifically what it will mean as queer-identified folks. That is enough.
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And yet, we are asked as people of faith to march on. We are asked to hold on to invisible comfort for the days ahead. We are asked to accomplish this task each time this season rolls around. See, as Christians we are invited to actively wait. “Oh, you want to know what’s going on?—Hold on, I’ll get back to you.” Tick Tock. Tick Tock. This is what I get when I look at the baby Jesus in the Nativity scene (technically rolled out too soon during the season of Advent if we want to be picky)—maybe that’s why we get candles—to assuage our natural impatience as humans. Yes, I look into the eyes of our Lord as a baby and I see, “not yet…just wait (perhaps with a twinkle in his eye).” Not always the most comforting, but definitely the most wise. See, we are lucky to be part of a tradition that celebrates and reveres an incarnational God who was with us on the planet (even if we weren’t there). The God we worship walked with us, felt pain, and sought to comfort us when we needed it most (and yes, challenged us when we were too comfortable). While baby Jesus doesn’t have all the answers, his birth was a sign that we were and are not alone—even in the darkest times (which is the backdrop of when he was born).
The passages I chose for today are paired together in the lectionary cycle…though out of season for today. I chose the passage from the Gospel of Matthew because it is giving me comfort during this point in history. This text comes from the Easter story when Jesus had risen from his grave and was telling the disciples what was next on the agenda (though I guarantee at least one of them was less than thrilled at this news). “I will be with you until the end of the world (or age depending on translation).”—this line from Scripture was framed and hung on the wall of my CPE Supervisor’s wall. (CPE = hospital chaplain training) It offered comfort for those of us visiting patients at all spectrums of life and death. There are no answers in a hospital setting—there are diagnoses, treatments, care, and so on—but no answers. As spiritual care providers, our task was simple—we asked them questions like, “How is it with you and God?” or “How is your spirit today?” As one on the receiving end of these questions, I never knew what I would hear—anger, grief, sadness, hope, or what. I listened. I listened as people told me their life stories. I listened to the patients whose families and friends had given up on them. I watched as death certificates were signed with no family present. I watched and listened.
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This is what we are invited to do during Advent: watch and listen. This year is one where I will have to scream this to myself because I want to scream, cry, shout, and argue with people who are at peace with the transfer of leadership about to take place. Perhaps there is a place for this in the midst of watching and listening—perhaps this is the first step in paying attention to ushering in Christ consciousness—the old ways that no longer serve need to part ways in order for new life to appear. As one of my friends said, “We are experiencing the pangs of labor—screaming is part of the birth process.”
What I find fascinating is that the creation story we know so well is paired with this passage from Matthew—the Great Commission as it’s known. So the question is, “For what are we created?” We are created for great things and marvelous works. We are created for Sacraments and healing. We are created and not alone. What’s next? Living out the good news…lifting up the oppressed, welcoming the stranger, restoring and creating, healing, and connecting with others. ​
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VOTE!!!!!!!!!!!

11/7/2016

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This week's blog is short and sweet as I'm still in the middle of unpacking and settling into a new place. Tomorrow is Election Day (in case you've been off the grid). I'm simply encouraging you to vote. Find out here at Vote411 to find out about your ballot and state information. Do you have a voting plan? Have you voted early? Where will you be watching the election returns??

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The Veil is Thin

10/31/2016

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This week's post is a bit delayed and will be shorter than usual
​as I was out of town over the weekend staffing a youth retreat. 
And I'm in the process of moving.
It is the middle ground between light and shadow, between science and superstition, and it lies between the pit of person's fears and the summit of their knowledge.
This is the dimension of imagination. It is an area which we call the Twilight Zone.
~Anonymous
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Halloween is by far one of my more favorite holidays. I don't like the terror aspect of the holiday but I love the chance to dress up and have fun with friends. Mind you, it's been a while since I've done that, but I still love this holiday and all it has to offer. 

Perhaps I've always known deep down that I have a connection to the spiritual world and witchy-ness traits (healing and mediumship).


There is something about the chill in the air, the way the wind carries the leaves, the clouds over the moon, and all the other nuances in nature. This is my time of year. I really can tell the veil is thin and wish I was able to articulate this as a child. I identify far more with witches and brooms than Santa and cookies!! It is a season that speaks to me without words. 
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How do you feel about this holiday? 
What was your favorite costume?
Do you have a favorite holiday?
​What season speaks to you?
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Don't Judge Me, But...

10/23/2016

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I have learned the hard way to mind my business, without judging who people are and what they do. I am more troubled by the lack of space being provided for the truth to unfold. Humans cannot seem to wait for or honor the truth. Instead, we make it up based on who we believe people should or should not be.
~Iyanla Vanzant

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“Don’t judge me, but I like…” “Don’t judge me, but I just bought…” “Don’t judge me, but I am _____…” How often do we say hear this or even say something like it? Admittedly for me—quite often…too often. It appears that this may be the next adventure in healing. I was pondering this topic and then went to church this morning (10/23) and this was the subject matter for the sermon (based on Luke 18:9-14). The passage is one where Jesus is flipping the narrative (as was typical for him) of who is righteous and has a “pass” on judging others. Well, turns out the story highlights self righteousness and yes, that it is unacceptable to the Rabbi from Nazareth—and it turns out no one has a pass on judging others. One of the take aways from the sermon resonating with me is, “Love is more powerful than being right.” Dang. I've heard this phrased other ways but it packs a punch from the pulpit.
And then it’s time for the rubber to hit the road. I, like the minister in church today, enjoy being right. However, as I’ve gotten older and maybe a *little* wiser, I realize I enjoy friendships and connections. Yes, it’s true—and judging each other and the desire to be right gets in the way of authentic connection. Sure, that’s a no-brainer. How easy is this to practice in our daily routines? How often do you correct people on Internet forums or social media—or see others correcting people? Sure, we can’t participate in the “dumbing down of our nation,” but there is also a way to do it tactfully and without appearing arrogant or superior. 
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If I feel good about my parenting, I have no interest in judging other people's choices. If I feel good about my body, I don't go around making fun of other people's weight or appearance. We're hard on each other because we're using each other as a launching pad out of our own perceived deficiency.
~Brené Brown

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As the quote from Brené Brown alludes to, it’s about recognizing where we may feel deficient or lacking. In order to fill that void we often feel the need to prove ourselves. When I get real about it, it’s about the deficiency from my childhood in relationship with my sibling. She was the shining star in academics. There was no way for me to compete with that level of genius. She was literally in a league of her own. I, on the other hand, landed in remedial reading groups, remedial math, and just about any other subject. I couldn’t keep up. In all honesty, I didn’t want to. It wasn’t worth it—I was never going to be at that level. After my experiences with family this summer, I realize that my emotional life was overflowing and I had no coping or processing skills—and that took up parts of my brain needed for learning and remembering things. I, too, was in a league of my own—but there was no one there to understand my issues and I couldn’t articulate them.
Fast-forward to when I gained enough confidence to excel at the collegiate level—I became the enemy. I had little patience for people who weren’t willing to put in the time or effort to finish the assignments. Fast-forward to when I was in graduate school…it was even worse. Again, who was there to lend a hand or some sage words of advice? (crickets) Yes, I had to go through some humbling in order to stop being my own worst enemy. I’ve also had to find forgiveness within the deepest reaches of my being so that I can get back to center. It’s been quite a journey to find balance. It will continue to be a journey. As the minister said today, “God’s love is big enough to bigger than our sins.” Thank heavens!! Ultimately, that’s what it comes down to—a recognition that there is a force greater than ourselves that loves us, forgives us, and wants us to share this with others. We can’t do that if our ability to judge others outweighs our ability to see the child of God before us. It’s our choice.
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When you are spiritually connected, you are not looking for occasions to be offended, and you are not judging and labeling others. You are in a state of grace in which you know you are connected to God and thus free from the effects of anyone or anything external to yourself.
~Wayne Dyer

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Coming to Surface

10/16/2016

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Let us never forget that government is ourselves and not an alien power over us. The ultimate rulers of our democracy are not a President and senators and congressmen and government officials, but the voters of this country. 
~Franklin D. Roosevelt

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I’ve tried so hard not to write about this presidential campaign. I came close but I can’t keep quiet any longer (22 days and counting at the time of writing this). I had a whole host of things to write about regarding the GOP candidate—his hatred of immigrants and people of color, debate “techniques,” his connection to white supremacy organizations (yes, plural), where he stands on LGBTQ+ issues, and so on—and now there is his assault on women.  Like I said, he’s built quite the list. I struggled a bit deciding if I was going to write on my personal experiences of unwanted male attention (stalking and rape), but I decided on a different focus. I’ve read a couple posts on social media in the last week or so about thanking this candidate for bringing things to surface in our society that need to be addressed. I’ve wrestled with this concept. Does this candidate really deserve our gratitude? Given his ego, immaturity, and lack of class, probably not. But, what if this was one of his soul’s purpose?
This election season is wrought with emotion and as one who is heart-centered—I can easily get swept away by passionate words. It takes extra effort for me to stay the course. And, because I’m attempting to look at a larger picture and see how this concept would play out (gratitude for bringing things to surface)—that does not mean that I condone his ugly, abusive, soul-breaking, or corrosive behavior nor do I think it shouldn’t go punished within our justice system as appropriate. I can do my best to practice my Christian faith when it comes to men like this and forgive them; and such an act takes time, courage, and patience with self and others. I should also say that I am in no way intending to elevate this candidate in any way—gratitude for showing our country its societal ills (while perpetuating many of them) does not mean lifting up a person on a pedestal with a first place ribbon. 
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What's going to come up next??

Democracy is when the indigent, and not the men of property, are the rulers. 
~Aristotle

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The image that came to mind when thinking about this topic was the ecosystem of a lake. Yes, I thought of pond scum!! However, after a minor re-education on what exactly happens in this ecosystem, I see that there is a balance required for optimal health. The conditions have to be just right for a lake to maintain its health and ability to feed the microscopic organisms all the way to the trees. Perhaps the same could be said for our nation (I know, it’s a stretch, but I like me a nice metaphor!). Things have been out of balance in our nation for quite some time—many would argue all the way back to when the Indigenous Peoples were slaughtered and misplaced. And yes, many people are unwilling to look at this fact and believe that they have inalienable rights to the land they “own” to the air they breathe. Perhaps this is a crude metaphor and there are countless other ways to illustrate this point; however, this is what came to my mind. 

As free citizens in a political democracy, we have a responsibility to be interested and involved in the affairs of the human community, be it
​at the local or the global level.

~Paul Wellstone

I also think of the teachings of my religious tradition (Swedenborgian) and the works of Carl Jung. It is Jung who explained, “One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light but by making the darkness conscious.” I have participated in this work in my own life and working toward reconciling my life narrative and experiences in my family of origin. And so, when I take a step back and breathe from what I see playing out on the national stage called the presidential election—I see this concept in its systemic form. Because it is systemic, these oppressive forces have harmed countless people for generations. I am not excusing or condoning it, but rather understanding that it is going to take a massive acknowledgement for our history and clear choices to correct and atone for these wrongs. It is not impossible and it is imperative for our nation to move forward and heal. An example is the hashtag #notokay where people are coming forward and sharing their experiences with sexual assault. The removal of stigma and building of community is one step forward in the healing process. I'm also not looking to gloss over issues and jump to healing when an important step in the healing process is to speak and listen about a whole host of issues. I'm looking at what can happen next for our nation that is desperate for healing to take place.
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As the saying goes, “Don’t shoot the messenger.”
​But, that does not mean I have to vote for him! *wink*

The worst thing that can happen in a democracy - as well as in an individual's life - is to become cynical about the future and lose hope. 
~Hillary R. Clinton

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Moving...blech

10/10/2016

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Sorry to say that I don't have a long, clever, well thought out blog this week. I'm all over the place energetically as I continue the process of moving. 

Just like everyone else--I have a difficult time putting all my stuff in boxes to haul across town or country. However, this weekend was quite productive in getting my stuff in storage moved to a safer and more weather proof location. 

I whole-heartedly believe in the connection between our physical things and what we have going on mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

“When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny.” 
~Paulo Coelho,
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It's imperative to keep one's sense of humor through the process. Luckily, I had some amazing helpers over the weekend and they made sure I kept my cool and they took the brunt of what was being moved as my ankle is still in healing mode. I am blessed beyond measure with the friends I have who show in those moments in life when I'm not sure which way is up. I do believe in the goodness of humanity and this weekend was no exception. There's lots of goodness to go around--even on whack-a-doodle moving days. 
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To grow, you must be willing to let your present
and your future be totally unlike your past.
Your history is not your destiny.
~Alan Cohen

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Everything Is Changing

10/2/2016

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I trust in nature for the stable laws of beauty and utility.
​Spring shall plant and autumn garner to the end of time.

~Robert Browning

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Everything is changing. Perhaps that a silly phrase—of course everything’s changing. Our bodies are actively regenerating, the cosmos continues to grow and shift, organizations experience turnover and growth, and so on. It’s not a silly realization when one is in the midst of life changes: births, deaths, relationships ending or beginning, living situations changing, and so on. We are continually changing; however, it depends on where we are in the cycle as to how deep the impact is felt. And yes, it’s autumn—the season we all recognize as a time to let go of what no longer serves. It’s a period of letting go and preparing for dormancy. What do you need to release?

Progress is impossible without change, and those who
cannot change their minds cannot change anything. 

~George Bernard Shaw

You can probably guess that I’m in the middle of a life/situation change. I am in the process of finding a new home (and no I’m not going to be posting location details on the internet, thank you!). It’s been a long time coming and I feel like I am ready (though excited and nervous at the same time). Because I have been following what’s happening energetically on the planet (and stars, too!), I understand that it is important to pay attention to signs and signals. I’ve been in denial for a while now and it’s time to emerge. My comfort zone has become uncomfortable and uninhabitable. Yes, even spiritually inclined people trip and fall through life. However, I’m back to paying attention and ready to walk the walk of authenticity (though excited and nervous at the same time). 
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Since we cannot change reality, let us change the eyes which see reality. 
~Nikos Kazantzakis

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What has helped pave the way for these changing? Well, yes, I continue to do healing on emotional issues on a regular basis. What else has helped?—the  chakra classes I began a couple weeks ago (click here to learn more). Yes, these class discussions that include meditation and other healings have begun to build the foundation of change. I still am surprised when I see the effectiveness and results of laying the inner foundation on an energetic level. Perhaps I shouldn’t—but it still rocks my world when I see the impact. I’ve also been participating in physical therapy for my ankle and that has given me more confidence physically to do what I need to do for all these changes. It’s not an accident that these classes, physical therapy, and location change all are happening at the same time. The energy of each activity is influencing the other. There are parts that need a confidence boost here and there, but that will come. 
I hope you’ll consider signing up for a chakra class or two.
​I think I’ll be running the series again in the spring—another season of change. 
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